The Problem We Solved Was Our Own.
Meet the founders behind the **BITUBI Experiment**: The Driver who was stalled by analysis, and the Navigator who focused on the map.
The Genesis of The Car Conversation
We created **BITUBI** because one of us (guess who?) spent years **sitting at the wheel, too consumed by thought to put the car in drive.** We had the goals and the destination, but until we resolved the argument *inside the car*—the one between analysis and action—we were paralyzed.
We realized **personal growth is the most important trip of your life**, and like any great trip, you must:
- **Choose Your Destination:** Define your identity and purpose (**Phase I**).
- **Prepare Yourself:** Tame the mind and eliminate inner resistance (**Phase II**).
- **Enjoy the Way:** Build automated systems and trust the journey (**Phase III**).
The **BITUBI Roadbook** is the manual that ended the argument for good.
Adriaan: The Driver (The Overthinker)
**The Struggle:** The classic analysis-paralysis champion. He is the **Demagnetized Man**—brilliant but stalled—who knew *all* the principles but spent more time planning the trip than driving it. He embodies the pain of the **future-trap**.
**His Wisdom:** Adriaan is necessary for setting the **Purpose**. His growth comes from learning to **surrender the steering wheel** to the process and trusting the system (Ruth).
Ruth: The Navigator (The Presence)
**The Solution:** The voice of calm, consistent **Presence**. She’s the one who insists on applying the **Two-Minute Rule** and making sure the plan is focused on the **Now**, not the 'what-ifs' of the next mile.
**Her Wisdom:** Ruth provides the **Clarity and Structure**. She’s the reason we stopped arguing about the destination and focused on the next mile.
Your Invitation to the Car Conversation
We are just two people who found a way to stop fighting themselves. The **Car Conversations** are our ongoing proof that the biggest argument in your life can become your greatest source of power.
See The Full Story in The Roadbook